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Archive for November, 2009

EGO: Emotions Edge God Out

Sunday, November 22nd, 2009

Ego is a frequently used word in spiritual teaching. But what does it actually mean?

It usually has some kind of negative connotations, and many people think of it as linked to arrogance.

But this is only part of the story. In fact – if you think ego, or working from ego is negative – then you have ego! If you think EGO is negative then that is your ego talking.

alone in cafeEgo is that “stuff” or those feelings that get between you and your connection to the source

It is what gets between you and other people.

If you have any judgment about another’s behavior – that is your own ego. If you think someone is behaving badly you are making a judgment and that is ego.

Even if you are judging something as GOOD that is ego.

Ego is separation, and the ego wants you to remain separate from others and the source. If there is no separation and you become one with the universe the ego disappears. The ego is fighting for its survival and does so through emotions.

EGO is the part of you that is NOT God. Your emotions Edge God Out (EGO).

Pleased with selfSometimes these emotions might seem nice. You might look at another person and think “I am good. They are bad”. This sort of ego-driven comparison might cause you to feel good or superior to others. This might seem to feel good in the short term, but is ultimately unsatisfying and halts your evolution.

The goal of your spiritual evolution is to bring your Higher Self down and merge it with your conscious and unconscious minds. When the unconscious mind is full of blocks, limitations, limiting beliefs and all the other aspects of the ego the Higher Self cannot exist here.

Those blocks, limitations, limiting beliefs are simply ego.

Emotions only Ever Lie

Release your emotions – Free yourself from EGO

When you release your negative emotions, and other blocks, you create “space” for your Higher Self to merge with the rest of your mind.

Sometimes we think the releasing of these blocks will be painful and difficult. But actually the opposite is true. Holding on to our pain and blocks simply causes us more pain.

It’s not about facing our demons – it’s about releasing them. Set them free. Once they are released they will simply evaporate and vanish. When we release them, let them go – our own Higher Self can destroy the pain.

In order to release a negative emotion or block, fist notice it. When this happens it can feel like a problem. It’s only a problem when you think of it like that. In fact, it’s a perfect opportunity to release another part of your ego, to accelerate your evolution and to bring down your Higher Self.

couple with arms in air

The goal of spiritual evolution is to constantly be self aware and own everything. Not only the parts of ourselves we don’t like, we have become very good at this. But also to own and let go of those emotions we label positive.

Positive emotions are just as seductive, but when we have them and feel them – they are not US. They are something separate to us. When you let go of having or feeling joy, peace, bliss, then you BECOME joy, peace bliss.

Would you rather FEEL joy – or BE joy?

Would you rather FEEL peace – or BE peace?

Would you rather FEEL bliss – or BE bliss?

Free yourself. Free your mind

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Law of Attraction: Did the Jews attract the holocaust?

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

Warning – possible controversial blog post ahead!!!

j0444917Whenever the law of Attraction is mentioned, someone usually pops up and asks –“so did the Jews ask for the holocaust? Did they deserve it?”

Few people ever seem to have a good explanation for this so I had a bit of a think about it and attracted this one!

According to the LoA we “attract” (personally I prefer the word create) outcomes with our ENERGY and our thoughts. Not only what we are consciously thinking about, but our UNCONSCIOUS thoughts, create our outcomes. Indeed over 2000,000 of our thoughts are unconscious (about 99.9999%). Also LoA is clear that we create what we DON’T want, by fearing it. What we resist persists.

The clue there is in the title. The fact that thoughts and emotions are in the Unconscious mind, means (as the name suggests) out of conscious awareness. So NO the Jews didn’t sit around thinking the holocaust into existence.

How did it come about then?

Bad things happen when we fear them, and give the energy / thought of a bad or unwanted outcome attention. I’m not suggesting that 6 million Jews sat around thinking about mass extermination, but it COULD have happened like this….

Hypothetical explanation begins….

It starts with low level antagonism against the Jews, an individual Jew starts to dread certain interactions with other people or just low level disquiet. This sets up negative, but probably not specific thoughts and feelings of fear.

RFA073The universe complies and gives him more signs that trouble is ahead for the Jews. He begins to fear for his freedom to trade, to live where he chooses. He begins to worry that he’ll be able to support his family. He’s really worried now. Other Jews also begin to worry, and fear. The energy of fear is very unattractive, creates fear (of Jews) in others, who then start to persecute them even more, and use these feelings to justify their actions. So the Jews become more fearful, so the persecutors feel more fear from and of them. The persecutors act on their fear to repress the Jews.  And so on in this cycle until we have a holocaust. 

LoA is always clear to explain that we create with the energy of our thoughts – not necessarily the specific outcome that we are thinking of – and that you must focus on what you WANT, not on what you don’t want. It’s phrased in various philosophies as “What you resist persists” 

The mind cannot process negations directly. I’m sure you’ve heard of the “don’t think of a blue butterfly”. So if the Jews were giving a lot of unconscious emotional energy to “don’t persecute us” or something similar – then they did, unintentionally and without blame or fault, attract persecution into their lives.

Not because they deserved it, but because they feared it.

Taking responsibility of your own creation is a tough one. I was abused at the age of 13. I own it. I take responsibility for my part in the creation of that experience. It wasn’t my “fault” but it was my choosing as part of my Karma. And my experience, and how psychic, empathic and compassionate I became made me the damn good therapist I am today. I choose that too.

All in know is that if I take responsibility – I take control of my life. Personally I prefer to believe I’m the creator of my experience, not some hapless victim of circumstance.

But how you live your life is for you to choose. But why not choose a way that works and empowers?

Until next time

 

Lisa