Abundance

What Is Love Anyway?

Published February 13th, 2012 |

Imagine what it would be like to feel love and loved all the time?

Can you recall what it felt like the last time you knew 100% with every cell of your being that you were loved? I hope so, and I hope it was recent, and that it happens again soon, if not right now.

Sadly for too many people they don’t really feel love or loved. They feel alone, sad or hurt by past experiences. And at Valentine’s Day when we are bombarded with the suggestion that we should be in a “happy couple” and that there’s something wrong if you’re not it’s especially challenging.

Well in this article I’d like to share with you ways that you can create more love, the purest, most blissful source of love. And you’ll discover why love hurts and how to stop it hurting.

Let’s start by explaining what love is

Some people try to define it by how it feels, others by the kinds of relationships that we can feel love in. For example romantic love, platonic, parental love, the love we feel for our children. And they define each type of relationship as having different kinds of love.

But what if the relationship had nothing to do with what love really is?

Wouldn’t it be amazing if the love you feel is completely separate from anything going on outside of you, who you were with, or what you were doing?

In a moment I’m going to show you how this could be.

So let’s imagine that love is nothing more than a form of energy. Like electricity

And just as electricity flows through wires and cables, love travels through channels in your body. I’m going to call these channels your neurology. What’s your neurology? It’s basically your nervous system that carries information around your entire body. It goes way beyond the brain too by the way.

So love is a kind of energy. What kind of energy? I’m going to go out on a limb here and suggest that it’s as close to pure source energy as you can get in the body.

So when you feel love, what you are feeling is the unfettered rush and flow of pure source energy within your body. And it feels GREAT! Indeed this might be the reason we have bodies – so we can feel love flowing through them.

Romantic love – would simply be the experience of source energy moving in the body as triggered by the connection to another person, who also has source energy in their body.

Platonic love – would be the feeling of source energy moving triggered by a friend.

So why does love hurt?

Well the hurt you feel is actually the resistance to love.

Just like an electrical circuit, components in the circuit can have a purpose. It makes a light bulb glow, or a motor run. This is how love motivates us to make changes in our lives and the world. And it is the single most powerful motivating force in the universe.

However when something is introduced to the circuit that resists the flow of love and creates no useful purpose we feel that as emotional pain. Just as certain elements in an electrical circuit can block the flow of electricity in such a way that it simply heats up, catches fire or blows a fuse.

When love is blocked, this is what happens in our bodies, and we feel it as emotional pain.

What blocks the flow is tension in the body. This tension is caused by the difference between what we want (inside of ourselves, and what we experience in the physical reality.

I’ll cover that in more detail in our next issue so make sure you look out for that.

For now – to increase love remember that regardless of what is happening outside of you in terms of your relationships, those circumstances don’t need to affect how much love flows within you.

And remember that all pain is simply the resistance to love. Resist less, love more.

I love you

Lisa

Posted in Abundance, Mystery of Energy Transmutation |

How Can I Create More Abundance?

Published October 5th, 2011 |

By Lisa Turner

Question

“My business is picking up and I see great things happening, but I’m a bit behind on my business goals for this year. How can I create more abundance this year and ultimately achieve my financial goals for 2011? What do I need to be aware of right now that’s stopping me from being on track with these goals?”

Answer from No-One-Guide

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You are on track. The path is open for you. The path is completely open and available for you. And for some reason, rather than following the path and keeping your steps on the path, for some reason you’re choosing on occasion to be distracted to what is to the side of the path. Our invitation would be to simply focus on the path and to be steadfast, to be in true in your decisions that this is the path that you’ll follow. These are the goals that you’ll achieve. This is what you choose and this is what you will have. And do not falter from this choice.

We wonder if sometimes you choose a goal and then, you perhaps do not fully believe that it’s possible or perhaps that it’s even too hard or perhaps there’s more work involved than you anticipated. You become tired and you become disheartened.

It is our invitation to you to rest when you are tired and allow the goal, allow the path to unfold before you, but to remain firm and steadfast and complete with your choice that this is your goal.

Allow the goal to come to you as much as you move towards the goal

There is a sense that on occasion you set your goal and then you think, “Well, maybe if I allow myself to have something a little less,” This confuses your guides. It confuses us in our ability to support you because we will assist you and guide you towards that which you need to achieve your goal. When you decide to settle for a little less, then we must arrange and organize for other situations and circumstances to be present in your life and to arrive in your life. These changes take time to become manifest in the physical or material world. These changes then make your goals appear to take longer.

If you want ten, do not settle for nine

If you wish to achieve the goal, then choose it and decide it. And accept no slippage. Accept no second best. If you want ten, do not settle for nine. Keep steady until you are ten because the Universe has conspired. The environment, the energies, the situation are guiding you towards achieving that ten. When you say to us and yourself that you will settle for nine, nine is not on the way to ten, nine is a different place to ten. So, in order for us to then guide you towards nine, we must make many changes. And then, you must make changes in your actions. And this means that even nine takes longer than ten if you have decided ten and settled for nothing other than ten or whatever the goal may be.

So, this is what you need to do stay on track for your goals and also, to create more financial abundance to set a financial goal. And with finance, money is a difficult energy for us to work with to assist you. And this is because it is less tangible. For us to assist you to achieve a financial goal, it is much easier for us to assist you to achieve a material goal that may have a financial implication. But choose not the finance, choose what the finance will enable. Choose that.

Choose what you really want because you do not really want money. You may think that you do. Many people think they wish money, but what they really wish and desire is that which money can provide. So, choose that which money provides. And if the means will be made manifest through money, then money will appear. If the means can be made manifest through another vehicle, then this other vehicle will appear. For you to achieve your goals, choose goals that are not as specific, not so much a money goal, but more about what you would do with this.

The time for you to choose struggle is coming to an end

We also notice for you in your future that you have some extraordinary experiences to enjoy. And these will be ones that you will truly relish. They are in many futures. You cannot avoid these exquisite experiences. Up until now, you have experienced some and much of your life as being of struggle. And this is now coming to an end. The time for you to choose struggle is coming to an end. The time is now for you to enjoy your life.

This does not mean that there will not be things that will challenge you, but that you will start to make a choice to enjoy the challenge, to relish it, to have delight in it. And this is because you will be surrendering. You will be surrendering. Your ego will be surrendering at this point. We can sense this happening in you almost as we are speaking to you. This is dissolving within you now. And you will be allowing it. You will be allowing yourself to be more free. As you allow yourself to be free, to experience more freedom, this will enable your true self to shine through even more.

It would be beneficial for you to pay attention to this happening. As this happens within you and as the external circumstances change outside of you to make this easier for you.

We have spoken.

About No-One Guide

The name of my guide/guides is “No-One-Guide” When I started to channel this entity, this stream of consciousness, I do what I always do, which is I ask its name. And the answer I got was that “We are no one guide. We have no one name.”

My guide is a highly evolved being or a highly evolved stream of consciousness that has never incarnated. Guides are attempting to evolve down into matter. They want to evolve down so that they can incarnate into a physical body. But these particular ones, this consciousness hasn’t ever incarnated. And the way they evolve down and earn the ability to incarnate into a physical body. Guides seek to learn and become sufficiently aware of the physical plane in order to be able to incarnate. It’s not about being given permission because nobody is governing this; they just need to learn about life.

So, what these highly evolved guides are doing is they’re attempting to learn more about the physical plane so that they can incarnate, and they do that by working with, helping, guiding and supporting people.

Posted in Abundance |

Ethical Selling Is Dead. Selling with Integrity Is Where It’s At

Published January 25th, 2010 |

By Lisa Turner

Ethics is a moral code. The problem with ethics is that everyone’s morals or ethics are different.

So what is OK for you, is NOT OK for others.

So rather than selling ethically – just following some set of rules, sell with integrity instead.

Integrity means that you are coming from a place of wholeness, of not needing the sale. When you do this you put the control and decision right back with the client. Ethics become redundant then.

Every time you speak to a potential client they will pick up your intent. They will be tuning into your energy, and the underlying message of what you want. Your desires are being broadcast.

If you are trying to persuade them to work with you because you need the money they will pick this up. People are much more sensitive than we usually give them credit for. People are also fundamentally very good at keeping themselves safe, so if they need therapy or healing and they sense that the therapists main intention for working with them is for financial reward they will not feel safe. Or at least not safe enough to book a session with you.

Clients come to therapists because they are in pain, physical or emotional pain and they need to feel safe and secure. They need to feel that throughout their process that the main thing YOU have on your mind is THEIR wellbeing. If you are working from a place of lack of abundance or needing the money at any time, your clients will pick up on this and you will both loose out.

You will lose the opportunity to facilitate wonderful change, and your client misses the opportunity to heal at a deep and profound level.

Now you might be thinking that you are a good person and of course you will only act out of love and I’m certainly not suggesting that this is the case. But if you have any sense of fear that there won’t be enough, of worry about being able to pay your bills, of needing the money more than they need the therapy then you will be doing yourself and your clients a great disservice.

When you are in a place of lack it’s not easy to not think that you need the money, and a way round this is to adopt the idea that you are here to serve your purpose, skills and gift. Your skills, talents and abilities are there for the purpose of serving, both you – to support and sustain you, and your client – to facilitate healing and transformation. By thinking and focussing on how you can serve you will find a perfect balance, where the interaction serves both of you in a karmically balanced way.

Adopt this “mantra” whenever you are connecting with a potential or existing client “how may I serve? How may I serve?”

I imagine that for whatever reason this person has approached me because I can serve them in some way. And that might be to direct them to another coach. If speaking to me helps them decide on any outcome that moves them forward then I have served.

Next time you are about to speak to a potential client repeat this mantra to yourself. Let go of any attachment to the outcome. Notice the shift in the energy of the exchange. Notice the changes in how clients respond to you.

And you’ll probably get more clients too.

Find out how you can increase you’re connection to source energy and abundance then I invite you to have a free emotional audit

Find and remove blocks to your success.

By Dr. Lisa Turner

Posted in Abundance, Business Success |

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7 problems faced by psychics, healers and coaches

Published January 14th, 2010 |

By Lisa Turner

Psychics, healers and coaches tend not to be in this business for the money. For them it’s more a calling, a life’s purpose to heal and help others. So why is it that despite such good intentions their lives and work are so challenging? Here are some of the challenges:

1. Not enough paying clients

By clients I mean people who are willing to pay you pay you for your time, as opposed to those who will happily call you to “find out a bit more about what you do” or those who will come for your free introductory session and go away to “think about it”, never to return.

A client is a client when they agree to pay you. They are a prospective client when they call. They are a prospective client when they see your brochure, or website, but they are not your client until you book a session and pay you for your time.

If you don’t have a steady stream of people who will pay for your time then you have a marketing problem. If you spend more time finding clients than working with clients then you have a marketing problem.

2. Trouble convincing clients to come to come to you.

There are a lot of psychics who are great at lead generation, they get lots of people calling up for a chat or more information, but who never seem to tip over into becoming a paying client. usually this is around fear, fear of change and particularly with psychics, fear of knowing a truth they would rather pretend wasn’t there. Rapport and communication skills is a way to solve this problem.

3. Clients that don’t pay

Depending on how you run your practice you can have clients that simply don’t pay their bill. They may argue the price, claim they didn’t benefit, and worst of all – blame you for not solving their problem for them. Solving this requires simple business boundaries like a contract or terms and conditions. Get them to agree to them before you start working together and make sure they stick to them.

4. Client makes the change but rejects you or your role in making the change

Sometimes a client comes to you makes fantastic changes to themselves and their lives. They are healed. But later they deny that they ever had a problem, or that you ever helped them solve their problem. They might say things like “well it was never that bad” – Even when they had cancer and now they don’t! Or they might say “it was getting better anyway I don’t know how much what you did had to do with it”

In addition it is not uncommon for a client to completely avoid you, snub you if you run into them or reject you. They do this because you remind them of their old problem. This isn’t anything to be concerned about and can be quite healthy for the client. If your ego demands recognition and accolades then it’s you who has the problem.

5. Your client stays stuck

For example you or your client may have identified a problem, a limiting belief or a behaviour that does not serve them or an emotional response that is inappropriate, and no matter what you say or do with your client they don’t change. You know what they have to do but they can’t or don’t seem to do it. Solve this by learning more change and healing techniques and working with higher levels of energy. The more energy you have access to the greater the change in your client.

Another way a client can get stuck is they keep coming back with new problems. This can be genuine, that you have unlocked deeper parts of their unconscious mind and their issues are finally being allowed to surface so they can be dealt with, but sometimes it can indicate they have become dependent on you, and this is a problem. Working in a way that empowers the client and doesn’t disempower them will solve this one.

6. Your client rejects what you offer

Psychics are in the business of getting information that will help your client solve problems, avoid mistakes and make the most of their lives. So why is it that they then reject this very information? It might be that you have presented it in the wrong way, or it can be that they need help to integrate it in a way that supports their karmic journey.

7. You take on your client’s karma

Have you ever noticed that your client has gone away healed, their problem is completely solved, but somehow you start to develop problems that are similar or exactly the same?

When this happens you have inadvertently taken on their karma. Because the laws of karma are so little understood it’s very easy to do this. Usually their problems are an opportunity for them to grow. Find ways to helping them their problems in ways that encourage them to grow and evolve. This is the difference between showing them how, and doing it for them, or the difference between offering a helping hand, and carrying them. Find a way of working that is empowering and you will avoid taking on any client’s karma ever again, and even “work off” some of your own.