Have you got your energy balance right?
Published June 2nd, 2011 | 
Did you know that your success in life is largely down to having a good balance of both masculine and feminine energy. When you have too much or too little of one it can cause your life to seize up like as stuck as a very stuck thing, or wreak havoc and chaos.
Masculine energy is Rational Thought, Logic, Systems, Process, Control, Heat, Stillness, Light, Discipline, Steady State, Status quo, Consciousness, Structure, Order. It says “NO”
Feminine energy is Creative, Inspired, Raw Power, Cool, Dark, Movement, Change, Flexibility, Chaos, Intuition, Permitting, Dynamic. It Say’s YES
For example, a project will be a success if you take inspired creativity (feminine energy) and channel it systematically, with a logical plan (masculine). The result is you have fabulous finished project.
But when the balance is out the result could be very different.
Here are some of the signs your energy is out of balance.
Too Much Feminine Energy
- Fuzzy thinking, you can’t concentrate, start things but then get distracted and fail to finish things. Is your home or office full of unfinished projects
- You can’t focus, you have lots of projects on the go at the same time
- You say yes to things and later regret it.
- You find it really difficult to make decisions, and agonise over them for days, weeks or months.
- You are disorganised, lose things forget things have a “head like a sieve”. Sometimes you can’t even remember what you said in a meeting yesterday or last week.
- Your life is rather chaotic, with your days lacking structure or plans
Too Much Masculine Energy
- You find it very hard to take risks, even if you know it’s the right thing and miss great opportunities as a result. Have you ever kicked yourself for saying no to something that later turned out to be a great idea?
- You like to have everything planned out to the last detail. You get very stressed when you have to change your plans at short notice or if there isn’t a plan.
- When circumstances change and you need to adapt, change you often don’t notice until it’s too late.
- Others accuse you of being rigid, Inflexible or a stickler for rules.
- You like to know the “rules” and what’s expected. You can’t stand it when things seem to be disorganised or if others are making it up as they go along.
- You regularly try to make changes in your life, but things just go back to how they were.
Signs You Have Low Energy Generally
- You try to manifest money, or things but it never works
- Others don’t listen or ignore you. You lack power, authority and presence.
- At the end of the day you have been really busy and are exhausted but have little or nothing to show for it.
- You attract lots of interest and attention but it’s often from people who you really don’t want to be around. You find them repellent, but can’t seem to shake them off as they stick to you like glue and keep showing up wherever you go.
- Your personal relationships aren’t working or nonexistent.
- You try to get the attention of people who you know will be able to help you and they give you the brush off, you can’t connect with them.
- You are very spiritual but find it hard to bring your spiritual insights into physical reality. You have great spiritual wisdom, but no-one will listen to you.
But when you’re energy is working, and you can maintain a dynamic balance of both polarities success becomes almost inevitable
Here is just a sampling of what is possible if your sexual energy is functioning exquisitely.
- Would you like to be highly creative and able to channel your creativity into successful and profitable projects?
- Would you like to finally get organised so that you know where things are and don’t waste time?
- You would like to be fully in your body and feel alive in the present moment.
- Would you like to just KNOW if an opportunity is a good one or not, and be able to take decisive action?
- Would you like to be able to focus with laser clarity so that you could get things DONE?
- Would you like to have crystal clarity of mind so that you can think logically, rationally and clearly? It’s this that makes it possible to make good decisions and get things done
- Would you like to manage your time better so that every day you achieve something extraordinary and can feel satisfied at the end of the day?
- Do you wish you could just make snap decisions that are the rights ones without agonising over them?
- Do you wish you could be more spontaneous and have more fun?
- Would you like to have the “Midas touch” and create amazing coincidences all the time? would you like to experience amazing LUCK and good fortune
- Would you like to be able to say NO to things (and the right things)
- Do you wish people would listen to you, seek you out and have them hang on your every word. Can you imagine what it would be like to have people flock to hear you, see you, talk to you, be near you?
- Would you like to attract and keep your soul mate and have the relationship be fulfilling and satisfying on every level?
- Do you wish you could magnetise money?
Well who wouldn’t? find out how it’s possible click here
Could Harry Potter’s cloak of invisibility be a reality?
Published April 6th, 2011 | Have you ever wished you could be invisible or shape-shift?
I get many people asking me about how to become invisible or more visible or to shape shift and change your 
appearance (without plastic surgery or makeup).
Rather than being completely mythical it does have some basis in reality.
First off why would you want to do this anyway?
- Have you ever been walking late at night and about to pass a group of rowdy lads or girls and just not wanted to attract their attention?
- Maybe you know someone who once they get started just won’t stop talking, fine until you’re in a hurry and you wish that you could just pass them by without them noticing you.
- Have you ever needed to hold a groups attention but felt as if you were invisible and just couldn’t make yourself seen or heard?
- Or have you ever wished you were more powerful, or stronger, more confident?
Well all of this is entirely possible and it’s all about energy and intention.
The cloak of invisibility is actually just one aspect of the bigger topic of shamanic shape shifting.
This is a technique is entirely possible and it’s all based on changing the appearance of your aura. By changing the appearance of your aura you can seem brighter and more visible, almost invisible and even take on the appearance of other animals and people.
How do you shape-shift or become invisible?
Here are some simple steps to get you started with shamanic shape-shifting.
1. Get in control of your aura
The process of becoming invisible or shape-shifting is all about control of your aura and energy field. People notice this much more than your physical appearance. That’s why physically small people can seem to take up a lot of space, whilst you can completely overlook physically large people.
Unfortunately this is made harder by the fact that you cannot control your aura with your conscious mind or will. Your aura is in the control of your unconscious mind. To get in control of your aura you first need to work with your unconscious mind.
2. Seal Your Aura From All Energy Leaks
The most important thing is for your aura to be completely sealed and it must have NO energy leaks. These energy leaks will be picked up unconsciously by others so that no matter how dim you try make your aura that leaking energy will give you away.
It’s impossible to control of your aura or seal it through conscious will-power alone. The aura is in the control of your unconscious mind and emotions. So even if you’re not feeling emotional at that moment your aura will betray your emotional past.
A quick check to see if you have any emotions is to answer this question. Do you have memories from the past which as you think about them NOW trigger painful emotions? If you do then you have unresolved emotions
3. Harmonise Your Aura With The Environment
Invisibly is all about adapting your aura signature so that it is in complete harmony with the environment. People’s senses are adapted to notice difference. So if your energy blends in, then no-one will notice you.
In the same vein if you want to stand out you change your energy signature to make it different from the people and place and you will shine out.
4. Harmonise Your Aura With Another Being, Or Animal
Shape-shifting is the art of modifying your aura signature so that it is the same as the being or animal that you wish to shape-shift into. That way people will unconsciously feel that you are like that person or animal.
When you do this you will also take on the qualities of that animal. So if you shape-shift into a cat, you will increase in grace and poise, and find your eyesight is sharper.
5. Transmute Energy
Changing your aura takes a lot of energy. To do it effectively without draining your energy you need to have access to an unlimited amount of energy. The most potent source of energy available in the body is sexual life-force energy. Being able to harness and access this energy enables you to become invisible or shape shift for long periods of time without being drained.
6. Develop The Sensitivity Of A High Level Psychic
To maintain your invisibility or to shape shift, you need to be able to make constant, tiny changes to your aura to adapt it to the continuously changing environment you need to be highly attuned to changes in the energy of the people around you and place you are in. To do this you need to be as sensitive as a High Level Psychic (one who works at the level of the Higher Self). Without this degree of sensitivity it’s like driving blindfold, you simply don’t know where to steer your energy.
7. Clear any painful emotions
Painful emotions or emotional leakage will short circuit any changes you try to make to your aura. Even if you are not feeling emotional in the moment, if you have unresolved emotions these will show up in your aura no matter what you try to do to mask them.
This can be achieved with Psycademy Emotional Release Process which not only releases all your emotional pain from the past, it also removes any negative energy from your aura and seals any leaks, so that it is completely healed and sealed and ready for shape-shifting, shining brighter or to be dimmed down and make you invisible.
Steps to ground yourself
Published November 17th, 2010 | Spiritual people often talk about the need to “ground yourself” but what does this 
really mean and how do you know if you need grounding?
In my last two newsletters you discovered the signs that you are ungrounded and how to avoid the mistakes people make when trying to ground yourself. In this article I’ll reveal the 7 essential steps you must take to ground yourself.
Being ungrounded happens when we spend a lot of time meditating or being out of the flow of life or even out of our bodies. It’s essential to get connected to our spiritual source for inspiration and guidance but we then need to bring those insights back into the real world and implement them. We need to ground our spiritual visions. Being ungrounded stops you from functioning effectively in the real world. It’s great to be spiritual, but even more important to effectively use your spiritual wisdom to make changes to the world and your life.
Here are some simple positive steps you can take to get yourself grounded.
1. Take action
Doing something in the physical world brings you back into physical reality. Taking action has the added bonus of bringing your spiritual visions into the physical world. It doesn’t matter what action you take, any action steps will bring your attention and focus into the physical so you become grounded. If you are feeling ungrounded it’s best to take actions that aren’t vital or where mistakes don’t matter.
Tidying, filing, organising or doing any simple tasks that are orientated on your physical environment are perfect ways to ground yourself. This is especially true when you have to concentrate on organising and where to put things.
2. Stand on one leg
Standing on one leg forces you to find and keep your balance. It brings your attention to your physical body and therefore the physical world. Alternate which leg you stand on and even use a yoga balance posture to add a bit of extra challenge. Yoga is great for brining you into your body and grounding you.
3. Talk to someone
Talking and holding a conversation brings your attention into the present which is where the physical world always is. Pay attention to what the other person is saying and put all of your attention onto the conversation.
4. Cook and eat
Cooking is a very grounding activity. Cooking is one way of nurturing your physical body so by preparing a meal for it, you will be putting your attention onto the physical world and therefore be grounding yourself.
Eating is another activity that brings your attention to the physical body. When you eat make sure your awareness is fully on the food. Notice how it tastes and how your body feels as you eat it and just afterwards. A word of caution here though, many spiritual people become overweight because they use food as an attempt to ground themselves, but they don’t eat with awareness so it leads to overeating.
5. Wash
Washing your face or taking a shower are yet more ways of nurturing your physical body. It brings your awareness to your physical body and your attention into the physical world. As you wash make sure you are paying attention to the process of washing. You can also use cold water to really wake up your senses and physical body.
6. Breathe
Specifically breathe deeply whilst you put your attention on your body. Breathing increases life force energy. In addition, energy flows where the attention goes, so breathing with your attention on your body will, literally, breathe life force energy into your body. As an extra tweak you can hold your breath on the OUT breath. The four points of the breath (in, hold full, out, hold empty) each relate to an element and “hold out” is the earth element. Holding the out breath will increase the earth element which is the essence of being grounded.
7. Count The Beans (Balance Your Bank Accounts)
I have a friend who is an accountant who calls himself a “bean counter”. Being grounded increases your ability to manifest not only your spiritual visions, but also MONEY. Because money relates to the physical world balancing your accounts, or even just checking the accounts and making sure there are no outstanding bills is very grounding.
Being Grounded Makes You The Vehicle That Connects Heaven And Earth
Not only will being grounded make you feel better it will help you to bring your spiritual vision into the physical reality, to ground your insights and dreams. It’s great to be spiritual but even better to be spiritually connected, where you become a vehicle for connecting heaven and earth, from God’s mind to your mind, to your body, and into mother earth.
Increases your Personal Presence
When you are ungrounded you are not present, your energy body is out of your physical body, and it’s also out of this time zone. Energetically, you’re not all here. This will make you seem invisible and lack personal presence and charisma. If you’re not present you have no presence. The more present you are the more presence you have.
Increases your Power to Change The World
Being grounded and present not only increases your personal presence and power (energy and power are very closely linked) but it also increase your influence and ability to create change in the world. It is being grounded that separates the real spiritual people from the “fluffy bunnies” who are great at thinking happy thoughts and chanting, but often ineffective or powerless to make any real changes in the world.
Increases Your Financial Wealth
Being spiritual means you can access fantastic wisdom and insights. When you’re grounded that inspiration turns into products, services, business ideas and other means to generate money. Most really successful entrepreneurs know that getting an idea is only the first step, it then needs to be grounded into reality. Without grounding ideas are just dreams. Nice, fun and pleasant, but always fleeting.
Mistakes people make when trying to ground themselves – part 2
Published November 10th, 2010 | Spiritual people often talk about the need to “ground yourself” but what does this 
really mean and how do you know if you need grounding?
In my last newsletter you discovered the signs that you are ungrounded. In this second in a series of three articles you can avoid the mistakes people make when trying to ground themselves. In my next article I’ll reveal the essential steps to grounding yourself.
Being ungrounded happens when we spend a lot of time meditating or being out of the flow of life or even out of our bodies. It’s essential to get connected to our spiritual source for inspiration and guidance but we then need to bring those insights back into the real world and implement them. We need to ground our spiritual visions.
Being ungrounded stops you from functioning effectively in the real world. It’s great to be spiritual, but even more important to effectively use your spiritual wisdom to make changes to the world and your life.
Here are some of the most common mistakes made by spiritual people, and even taught by spiritual teachers in an attempt to become grounded.
1. Meditate
Meditating simply takes you OUT of the physical reality. To ground yourself you need to do something that brings you IN to the physical. Meditating does not do this, instead it takes you into your imaginative mind and dreams.
2. Sit with it
I’ve often heard spiritual people or even teachers recommending “sitting with it” as a way to try to ground yourself. But “sitting with it” doesn’t bring you into the physical reality. It’s neither specific enough nor is it active enough. Although it IS important to come back to the physical reality slowly at some point you will have to stop sitting and start moving about.
3. Contemplate
As with “sitting with it” contemplation takes you back into your mind and imagination, which is the opposite of bringing you back into your body. In fact it keeps you OUT of your physical body.
4. Planning and thinking things through
Yes planning and thinking things through is important but it’s not the best way to start to ground yourself or your spiritual vision. It’s just not active enough. In management training there is a phenomenon known as the “planning trap” where individuals or a team become paralysed by over-planning and making sure they know ALL the steps to the whole process before they take any action. This is a surefire way to never get anything done.
5. Use a grounding visualisation or guided visualisation
This couldn’t be more wrong. When you are ungrounded you are OUT of your body and in your imaginative mind. You’re in the world of your thoughts and dreams. The very last thing you need to do is more imagining. Imagining you are grounded will only keep you out of the physical and in your mind. It’s not active enough and doesn’t involve your body.
So – now you know what NOT to do. I’m sure you’ve experienced some of these or had them recommended to you. Like me, you probably wondered why they didn’t work. The bottom line is that you need to get into your body. In the last article in this series, which you’ll find in my next newsletter, you can discover exactly what you need to do to ground yourself simply and effectively.
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