Independence In Relationships
Independence Day! *Peaslake*, Surrey
Understanding the State of Independence in your Relationships
Recommended event presented by another outstanding Psycademy Graduate, Jackie Walker.
Understanding or decreasing your levels of independence within a relationship takes only a few steps and some minor changes to the way you act or respond to situations and people.Why do relationships go wrong time and time again? How many of these questions resonate with you:
With most relationships breaking up due to misunderstanding and lack of communication between the parties, Breakup Angels Jackie Walker and Tim Hodgson are running this one day workshop Understanding the State of Independence in your Relationships to demonstrate how easy it is for you to be able to ask for what it is you want in your relationship.
- Know what you want and the reason you want it.
- Know how to ask for it.
- Gain personal confidence.
- Stop giving in just to keep the peace.
- Stop feeling guilty or afraid.
- Gain strategies and tools to use when you’re facing a confrontation.
This day is for you if any of these questions also resonate with you:
1. Have you got tired of being controlled or having to do everything?
2. Do you wish you knew how to break out of the cycle so that you could live happily alone or together as equal partners?
3. Do you get scared about what your partner might think?
Q: Who is this for?
A: For everyone: Single, Married, Divorced, Living Together
With many years under our belts, working with individuals and couples in relationship difficulties and divorce situations, we are passionate in our belief that many relationships just need a helping hand. Whether you are currently with a partner, looking for a partner or in a less than perfect relationship, this workshop will help you identify what has caused problems in the past and eradicate them for the future.
Communication – saying what we mean, the words we choose, hearing what is said, understanding or feeling, what your hands are saying and your mouth isn’t.
Motivation – what we all need to survive, what you give and get and why, how to find out what’s really wanted.
Conflict - handling arguments, understanding the cause, fire fighting, stuck in a rut.
Blockers - selective honesty, being out of control, life experiences, guessing, avoidance tactics.
Through this special programme, Understanding the State of Independence in your Relationships Breakup Angels, Jackie Walker and Tim Hodgson explore the options open to you:
What do you need to do to allow you to be truly in charge of your life again – yes even within a relationship?
- What do you need to stop doing for things to improve?
- What do you need to stop doing for things to improve?
- If you had a magic wand what would you wish for?
You might be asking if your current relationship is really on its last legs? Not all relationships should stay intact and not every divorce is the answer to the problem. Should it be the case that yours is at the end of the line, this day will help you find ways to end your relationship with understanding and respect which means that both you and your children will have a much easier and less stressful time (as well as keeping legal fees down.) On the day:
We’ll be sharing the secrets of how to overcome the common problems that come between two people.
- If you had a magic wand, what would you wish for?
- The low down on what goes wrong and how to fix it.
You will learn how to move from putting up with something to recognising and expressing your needs and wants.
This is a day packed full of actions you can take, tips and techniques for you to use immediately, stress busting exercises, tools and strategies, humour and fun.
What’s more, each person will devise their own Personal Relationship Plan that will allow them to move forward and step into a new future of their own choice and their own design.
Q: Do I need to come on my own?
A: We are looking forward to welcoming you if you come on your own, with a friend, or as a couple. You won’t need to share your story – any personal work will be private and we will be doing everything to ensure that you feel comfortable from the outset. There will be opportunity to ask Jackie and Tim personal questions throughout the day.
What can I expect?
In a small, informal setting at the delightful Hurtwood Inn, Peaslake, Surrey we will share the key learnings which have helped our clients move forward, our experiences and some of our success stories. We expect there to be plenty of laughter as you begin to recognise how easily you can make a difference to your life. You will find it easier and faster to move forwards.
Can you imagine what kind of relationship you would rather have? Would you be willing to spend just a few hours focusing on how to get it? What if you were able to change just one small thing and find that it makes an enormous difference? How would you feel if you took back control of your life and the fear of what might happen if you did just disappeared?
Independence Day – Saturday 4th July, 2009 is all about that and more – come and join Jackie and Tim and get the answers you need to allow you to move forward.
How much will it cost me?
Understanding the State of Independence in your Relationships workshop on Saturday 4 July 10am-5pm
£137 - £97 with early bird discount of £40 if booked before 26 June.
The price also includes morning coffees, afternoon tea, buffet lunch and all materials.
How do I book – Click here to find out more and book direct with Breakup Angels