This article is an extract from a channelling session with my guides “No-One-Guide”. I ask the question, How do you assert your boundaries without being unkind?

Who are No One Guide?

No One Guide are a non-physical, highly evolved consciousness. They have never incarnated or inhabited the physical plane. Never have they lived before. No One Guide, as their name suggests are not a single or fixed energy or being, but are the highest vibrational energy that can be held or invoked into the human body. When I work with them they enter my body. They are fluid and change in energy, vibration, and awareness, according to who is asking the question, and who is receiving the answer.

In this session, the complete question I ask is one I received: How can I assert my boundaries without being unkind? I struggle to set boundaries with people and tend to let them use, manipulate or obstruct my spiritual progress until I have enough until I have had enough. I then lose it and cut them off completely. I just don’t like it when people take my kindness for weakness.

Answer from No One Guide:

in order to answer this question, it may assist you to understand more about what it is to be a spiritual being. Spiritual means that you have conscious access to, and awareness of, you as the living embodiment of Source Energy and the divine. Your higher self expresses itself through you, through the lens of your personality. This is what makes you both unique as an individual and enables you to be the expression of Source Energy.

It’s a myth that to be spiritual is to always be nice and say yes to everyone in the hope that they will be nice to you. This doesn’t work. To be spiritual is not to be nice; rather, it is to make choices and actions that are for the highest good of all. If you make decisions that are for the good of certain others, then you are not making decisions for the good of all.

How to treat others

The Golden Rule is the principle of treating others like you would like to be treated. So, you might want people to treat you the way you treat them. But, the problem with that is you are treating them the way you like to be treated, and other people don’t necessarily want to be treated that way.

More appropriately, you should treat others as they wish to be treated and ask others to treat you the way you wish to be treated. They might say ‘no’ in which case you can say ‘Fine, I still love you, but I’ll play with someone else’. Or they’ll say ‘yes’ in which case you can play together happily

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I’d love to hear your thoughts on this – so leave a comment or any questions you might have.

To your spiritual success,

Lisa

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