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How to handle negative people

Have you ever found yourself surrounded by people who are moaning complaining or just downright negative? Nothing ever is quite right for them. They always have something to complain about or have a whinge about.

If you’re an empath you probably find yourself picking up on the negative emotions of others even if they aren’t even saying anything or acting negatively! Either way being around negative people can drag you down.

Not only can the people we meet bring us down, then there’s the barrage of negative information and stories from social media and mainstream media.

You’ve probably seen the passive aggressive posts from “that friend”! who’s always posting how bad their life is. maybe you feel sorrow or compassion for them. But after a while even a saint might find it wears a bit thin and you might even find yourself feeling a little bit irritated by it!

Not to mention mainstream media hitting us daily with stories of doom and gloom and death and disaster and economic and financial ruin with hardly a feel-good or happy story to be found!

How can we deal with all this negativity in the world?

When faced with an onslaught of negativity it may seem that you are powerless to control the negativity of others, or the world, and this may well be true. But here are some simply tips to keep you in your state of joy.

Don’t become part of the problem!

If you find yourself constantly surrounded by negative people, make sure that you aren’t one of them!

It’s easy to find yourself joining in with the pervasive current of moaning. In some cultures it’s the norm to share what’s wrong rather than what’s right! Start to notice and be aware of those times you find yourself saying, or being tempted to say “Typical!” and then add to the negative dialogue. Don’t judge yourself (that’s not going to help!), just notice and ask yourselves if you can do or say something different. Stop. take a breath and pause. And ask yourself if you can do any of the following.

1. Is there anything you can do to change the situation.

When something isn’t right in your world and you are able to fix it then do so. What can you do to change it? No matter how big or small the action is, do it. Make a plan, and make the change.

Rather than moaning that you’re not paid enough, instead start to think about what you can do to get paid more. Can you take a course or get certified in something to increase your value in your field of work. Can you ask for a pay rise? Can you apply for another job?

If you choose to you take no action or any steps to remedy your current situation stop moaning about it! Yes this may seem harsh but all too often I hear people complain that they are not happy with their lot yet when presented with numerous options and possibilities of things they can do to change it they choose not to. Yes training. studying applying for new jobs might seem like hard work and yes it does take effort and courage. Not everyone is willing to change their life circumstances. This is fine. There’s no judgment about what you choose to do or not to, but be aware that if there are things you can do to change a situation you don’t like and you choose not to take that action, then please shut up about it!

2. Ask someone else to change what is bothering you.

It’s easy to complain about someone else’s behaviour to everyone but the person whose behaviour you have a problem with! But if you never mention to them that their behaviour is a problem for you (the only person who can actually do something about the situation) then don’t expect them to change. Instead do us all a favour and please shut up about it!

3. Heal up the trigger within yourself.

Another way of describing this would be to choose to be happy and express and experience joy regardless of how others are behaving and regardless of your circumstances.

It’s easy to think that we are not in control of our emotional responses, and that when we are surrounded by negative people, we have no option other than to be dragged down ourselves.

But actually nothing could be further from the truth. When someone else’s negative emotion causes you to feel a negative emotion, this means you are allowing others to dictate to you whether or not you get to feel happy. You are the captain of your own ship and the navigator of the internal seas of joy.

I’m not suggesting that this is easy. Well actually I am – but we’ll come to that!

I am acutely aware that for most people their internal joy is entirely dependent on their external circumstance. Yet most spiritual teachings tell as this isn’t the case. Joy comes from within!

With the right spiritual technology it is possible to release the triggers that can cause you to feel negative emotions when faced with certain external events. This doesn’t mean you might not still choose to make changes in your life, but those external events become feedback about to the changes that you might wish to make. As a result those external events or people no longer dictate to you whether or not you get to feel happy or sad.

Here at Psycademy we use the spiritual technology called Higher-Self Therapy which releases negative emotions and limiting beliefs from the past. It releases trigger events, so you are no longer a victim to circumstances. Outside events simply become feedback, rather than them dictating whether or not you feel joy or misery happiness or despair, bliss or depression. Instead they become information.

4. Inspire others to feel joy.

When you’re surrounded by people who are unhappy or negative rather than feeling down and wishing they would just stop being so negative. Instead view this as your opportunity to inspire them to feel joyful.

When you tap into your inner and infinite joy and radiate that out others will pick up on this. Your joy might be the trigger that starts to tip them into their state of joy.

Any time you are surrounded by negative people rather than wishing they would just be positive, instead ask yourself “What could I do to bring happiness, joy and light to this person or this group of people?” It might be a smile a kind word and offer of assistance. It might also be a not so gentle nudge for them to take action to change their own circumstances!

5. Change the world!

What about the circumstances that feel totally out of your control? How do we respond to world events, economic situations, politics, government affairs, laws and even natural disasters? How can we stay positive or even change them?

Some things may seem totally out of our control, and whether or not they are isn’t the issue. What is important is that you can always choose to be the light. You can always choose to be the inspiration for others. You can feel compassion to others who are suffering, yet rather than allow this to bring you down, instead use this as your trigger to choose nothing less than infinite joy. Be the light in the dark times.

Think even bigger too! If the political situation depresses you, ask yourself what you could do to change it. Could you write to your local politician? Could you join a political party or support one that most closely aligns with your values and beliefs? Could you even consider running for office and being the leader that you wish politicians would be?

If something in your particular industry bothers you, ask yourself – What could you do to change this? What could you do to lead others to be and think differently? Could you make a stand for something?

Of course I am acutely aware that most who read this will have never contemplated this. You may be saying to yourself right now “Who am I to do that!” or “I wouldn’t even know where to begin!”

You may not choose to be a leader or to make a stand. But what if you did? What if you thought about it for just a moment?

What if you asked others for help? What if you sought out those who have and are stepping up to lead and be the change they want to see in the world?

Are you reading this right now and feeling called to be the spiritual leader the world is seeking right now, and who is choosing to step into a position of greater power, be it the world of politics, commerce, business, or in your community?

If you wish the world would change, and wish that you could inspire others to change it, then you know who you are!

You are the spiritual leader that others are seeking and looking for right now!

It’s time for you to step up!

If you know and feel that this is you, even if you don’t yet feel ready or able or know where to start, then click here and find out about our spiritual leadership and spiritual practitioner program.

Do I have gifts?

This week I’m sharing a Facebook live video where I explore what kind of Psychic you are.  Are you a high level or low level psychic and why it matters.

Be prepared for some surprising conclusions and get ready to have your worldview challenged!

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I hope you enjoy the video!  Please join in the conversation by leaving a comment below.

To your spiritual success

With love

Lisa

How do I remove blocks?

This week’s article is an extract from another channelling session with my guides “No-One-Guide”

As usual they give a highly unusual answer to a commonly asked question. And as always they say this about this message

“We are showering you with love, compassion, healing, support and awakening through the medium of these words as you read this. You are loved”

We are regularly asked questions about how to remove blocks.

Questions like:

How can I recognise and remove unconscious blocks that exist within me?
How can I remove the blocks to my success?
How can I remove the blocks to spirit?
How can I remove the blocks to being able to be more psychic?
How can I remove the blocks to money?
How can I remove the blocks?

Answer from No-One-Guide.

In truth there is no such thing as a block. There is simply the lack of source. The lack of coherence. The absence of the resonant field that enables you to resonate at source, so that you can experience and be and do and have that which you desire.

You perceive this absence and experience it as a block. This is a useful metaphor.

Please understand, it is just a metaphor but it is a useful one.

Because so many of you perceive that you have a block, we have gifted you, as a species with a spiritual technology that enables blocks to be removed and we have encouraged this spiritual technology to be taught and for others to be initiated into this spiritual technology. This spiritual technology is gifted through Psycademy, not only through Lisa but through, via Lisa, but through Psycademy and it will be disseminated by this mechanism.

Let us explain how it works. How it is possible to “release a block”. Before we do so, we will share that we are aware that there are many who do not wish to hear this.

We hear this question very often and we answer the same. The answer is not always welcome. And you are at choice to open to grow, or not. You are always at choice.

This spiritual technology enables a spiritual practitioner to first identify the source of the block.

What you experience as a block are the surface level symptoms of a deeper cause. It is this that must be identified first.

When the true cause of the block symptoms has been found then the practitioner creates a resonant field with source and brings the client into this field. In this resonant field of source nothing but source can exist, including resistance to source. It is (or was) this resistance to source that you label a block.

In order for the practitioner to do this they must have first received an initiation into their high level guide.

Thus the easiest and quickest way to remove your blocks is to experience a trained practitioner who has received the initiation into this release mechanism, into this spiritual technology that will release the block. And we will say this, we know that the majority of people will go away and prefer to keep their blocks.

We have no judgement of this, but we observe it as an outcome that you’d prefer to choose. So the first thing that we would encourage you to do, is to be aware, that you are choosing to have this block and choosing not to take advantage of the spiritual technology that is being offered to you right in this moment. This spiritual technology is called Higher Self Therapy. You can learn to do this for yourself and for others, through Psycademy, through Lisa. Through her practitioners, through her trained coaches, who will find and release your blocks.

Please understand this, that it is almost impossible for an individual to find and release their own blocks. To explain the reason for this we will use another metaphor, it is because it is as difficult for a surgeon to perform brain surgery on themselves.

So to answer your question, in order to remove your blocks, it is easiest for somebody to assist you, to identify where they are in your neurology. When these are identified in your neurology your practitioner is then able to release them for you.

To answer the question, “how can I recognise and remove the blocks?” This is a question that has been asked many times. And when we suggest that you work with a Spiritual Practitioner we hear or feel resistance “but this dis-empowers us.”

In truth it does not. Let us explain.

Does is dis-empower you when you wish to have food to go the shops? Does it dis-empower you to have a farmer grow the food for you? for it to be prepared and put in a shop for you to purchase? Does it dis-empower you to go to a restaurant and be served delicious food prepared for you?

If you wished to learn to drive does it dis-empower you to be taught by a driving instructor?

No! It empowers you to know that you can learn to drive. You can take lessons and you can learn to drive and you can buy a car. This empowers you to do this. It would dis-empower you to say, “oh no, no, there is no way, you can just, just keep trying.” Just keep trying to get to the shops and just hope that eventually the 100 mile journey to the shops or to your destination that you desire will just magically become closer to you.

You see this is what many people choose to believe. That they do not need help. We have observed that there has been a marvellous awakening in the self awareness arena, and for many this has dis-empowered them because it has led them to believe that they can and that they should be able to perform brain surgery on themselves.

Just as you would not, unless you were a mechanic, mend your own car, you would not build your own house, plumb your own plumbing, plaster your own walls. You do not do everything that is required to live. You do not experience it as dis-empowering to allow a farmer to plant the wheat and harvest the wheat, and the miller to turn it into flour, and the baker to turn it into bread, so that you can eat.

If you believe it is dis-empowering for another to be able to help you, to have the skills to help you then we would also encourage you to extrapolate this metaphor throughout your entire life. If that is dis-empowering then to go to the supermarket to purchase your food would be dis-empowering, and we suggest that you become completely self sufficient, so that you are fully empowered in your mind. Yes.

Lisa has chosen this path for her to embody and deliver this spiritual technology to the earth plane, but she does not bake her own bread, grow her own wheat, mend her own plumbing, which is being done as we speak. She does not do this. She does not repair her own vehicles. She did not build her own house. All of this is done for her so that she could support you and others, to experience the emotional release that she has chosen to bring you. You each have an individual life path. You each have chosen an individual life path in some way, to serve. A way that gives you joy.

Being served is an honour

Serving is an honour

This is the natural way

This is why source chose to experience this.

Allow yourself to be served

If you wish to release the blocks speak to Psycademy

If you wish to learn how to release blocks for others, speak to Psycademy. This is their purpose. To teach this. To share this.

If it is your purpose to help others this is a fine and powerful way to do this.

We have spoken.

Because so many people ask how can we get this support and help from No-One-Guide, here’s how you can work with me and No-One-Guide to create your future. http://www.psycademy.co.uk/training/spiritual-success-mastermind/

Who are No-One-Guide?

No-One-Guide are a non-physical, highly evolved consciousness. They have never incarnated or inhabited the physical plane. They have never lived before. No-One-Guide, as their name suggests are not a single or fixed energy or being. They are the highest vibrational energy that can be held or invoked into the human body. When I work with them they enter my body. They are fluid and change in energy, vibration and awareness according to who is asking the question, and who is receiving the answer.

As you read this answer you will receive the energy of source that is most appropriate for you at this particular moment. Read this question later and it will feel and seem different. Some have even said the words have changed!

Have you got a question for No-One-Guide?

I hope you enjoyed this answer from No-One-Guide.  I’d love to know what you thought, so do e-mail to let me know, or share your thoughts on our Facebook page.

What would you ask?

If you have a question for Lisa or No-One-Guide hit reply and let us know. I might ask No-One-Guide, pull a card for you, or tune into your situation.  Please note we can’t guarantee to answer every question, but we can guarantee you won’t get an answer if you don’t ask!

All questions are welcome.

  • Spiritual connection
  • Being a professional spiritual practitioner
  • Life the universe and everything
  • The nature of the universe
  • Relationships
  • Money, Career, Finance
  • Health

I look forward to reading your questions. The MORE information you give in your question the more likely it is to be answered. Note that No-One-Guide cannot answer questions that would disempower you such as “will xxx happen”.

To your spiritual success

Lisa

P.S. Just click here and submit your question for Lisa or No-One-Guide. We receive a lot of questions and do our best to answer them, if you want to experience the process No-One-Guide offered, then the very best way to do this is to join our Spiritual Success Mastermind where you can work together with me and No-One-Guide.

How can I release anxiety?

This week’s article is an extract from another channelling session with my guides “No-One-Guide”

As usual they give a highly unusual answer to a commonly asked question. And as always they say this about this message

“We are showering you with love, compassion, healing, support and awakening through the medium of these words as you read this. You are loved”

Question from Freya 

 “I deal with a lot of people who say they have social anxiety, some are isolated and become suicidal.  How do I assist them when they are afraid to come to me for help? And when they do come how do I help them to no longer feel afraid or anxious? I tell them everything will be fine, but they still feel fearful. What can I do?” 

Answer:

You cannot assist anyone unless they are willing to be assisted.

Those who do wish to be assisted and who are willing, you need the skills to help them.

Anxiety is simply fear. It is fear of something happening in the future.

The reason that telling them everything will be fine does not work is that it does not address the ENERGY OF FEAR.

Talking to someone does not release the energy of the emotion

Saying affirmations does not do this either

To release fear you need to release fear

This is a process that is possible when you have been initiated into your High Level Guide, which we know you have chosen to do.

When you have received your guide you will be able to create a resonant field with source

Source knows no fear

Source is only love

When you can create a resonant field of source with another they will feel no fear.

The fear and anxiety will be removed.

We will also teach you a process that will enable this to become permanent.

When you can do this with your clients you will be able to release the fear so that they no longer be afraid.

For now be aware of this.  They are you. They are your projection.  Everything that is outside of you is your projection.  So if you wish them to not be afraid, find the part of you that is projecting onto them – them being afraid.

If you wish to change another person so that they do not trigger you, or so that you do not respond negatively, so that they can become more empowered, the way to do this is to find where in yourself you are doing this behaviour.

For anyone who perceives others as having negative energy, this too is your projection.  Heal it within yourself and you will be healed and you will be whole and you will no longer need to create this in others.  Freya, when you are no longer afraid they will no longer be afraid.

Know this.

This is the answer to many questions.

You are source.

Everyone you know have ever known and have never known is also source.

The only way for you to perceive another person as being negative, or afraid, or anxious is to forget that they are source. You are perceiving them as less than source

Do you imagine that source, or that we No-One-Guide can ever perceive you as anything less than the magnificence of source that you are, that we know you to be?

This is why so many are attracted and wish to work with and be around this energy because when you are in this energy you know that you are source.  Everyone on this call, you are source.  We know you are source.  In this moment, all we do is point out where you are failing to recognise and realise that you are source.

When you allow yourself to be source then others around you will become even more source and thus the entire society will awaken even further and evolve.

This is how you heal and change the world

To remember it, you and all are source

We have spoken

Because so many people ask how can we get this support and help from No-One-Guide, here’s how you can work with me and No-One-Guide to create your future. http://www.psycademy.co.uk/training/spiritual-success-mastermind/

Who are No-One-Guide?

No-One-Guide are a non-physical, highly evolved consciousness. They have never incarnated or inhabited the physical plane. They have never lived before. No-One-Guide, as their name suggests are not a single or fixed energy or being. They are the highest vibrational energy that can be held or invoked into the human body. When I work with them they enter my body. They are fluid and change in energy, vibration and awareness according to who is asking the question, and who is receiving the answer.

As you read this answer you will receive the energy of source that is most appropriate for you at this particular moment. Read this question later and it will feel and seem different. Some have even said the words have changed!

Have you got a question for No-One-Guide?

I hope you enjoyed this answer from No-One-Guide.  I’d love to know what you thought, so do e-mail to let me know, or share your thoughts on our Facebook page.

What would you ask?

If you have a question for Lisa or No-One-Guide hit reply and let us know. I might ask No-One-Guide, pull a card for you, or tune into your situation.  Please note we can’t guarantee to answer every question, but we can guarantee you won’t get an answer if you don’t ask!

All questions are welcome.

  • Spiritual connection
  • Being a professional spiritual practitioner
  • Life the universe and everything
  • The nature of the universe
  • Relationships
  • Money, Career, Finance
  • Health

I look forward to reading your questions. The MORE information you give in your question the more likely it is to be answered. Note that No-One-Guide cannot answer questions that would disempower you such as “will xxx happen”.

To your spiritual success

Lisa

P.S. Just click here and submit your question for Lisa or No-One-Guide. We receive a lot of questions and do our best to answer them, if you want to experience the process No-One-Guide offered, then the very best way to do this is to join our Spiritual Success Mastermind where you can work together with me and No-One-Guide.

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